{"id":277,"date":"2018-06-20T13:15:06","date_gmt":"2018-06-20T13:15:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cgrinternationalschool.edu.in\/blog\/?p=277"},"modified":"2022-11-14T12:43:24","modified_gmt":"2022-11-14T12:43:24","slug":"how-to-help-your-child-deal-with-bullying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cgrinternationalschool.edu.in\/blog\/how-to-help-your-child-deal-with-bullying\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Help Your Child Deal with Bullying?"},"content":{"rendered":"[vc_row video_bg=&#8221;true&#8221; video_bg_url=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text]<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-385\" src=\"https:\/\/cgrinternationalschool.edu.in\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/how-to-help-your-child.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1070\" height=\"450\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cgrinternationalschool.edu.in\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/how-to-help-your-child.jpg 1070w, https:\/\/cgrinternationalschool.edu.in\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/how-to-help-your-child-300x126.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cgrinternationalschool.edu.in\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/how-to-help-your-child-768x323.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cgrinternationalschool.edu.in\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/how-to-help-your-child-1024x431.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1070px) 100vw, 1070px\" \/>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row video_bg=&#8221;true&#8221; video_bg_url=&#8221;&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1534144629297{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text el_class=&#8221;justify&#8221;]As a parent, we should know what bullying is. Bullying is unwanted, aggressive behaviour among school aged children that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The behaviour is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time. Both kids who are bullied and who bully others may have serious, lasting problems. Bullying is a major issue. It can make kids feel hurt, frightened, sick, lonely, embarrassed, and sad. A bully might say mean things about someone, grab a kid\u2019s stuff, make fun of someone, or leave a kid out of the group on purpose. Some bullies threaten people or try to make them do things against their will. Bullying can make kids not want to play outside or go to school. It\u2019s difficult to keep your mind on schoolwork when you\u2019re worried about how you will manage the bully in your class.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row video_bg=&#8221;true&#8221; video_bg_url=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text el_class=&#8221;highlight&#8221;]Why Do Bullies Act That Way?[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text el_class=&#8221;justify&#8221;]Some bullies are looking for attention. They might think bullying is a way to be popular or to get what they want. When they pick on someone, it makes them feel powerful. While, some bullies come from families where everyone is angry and shouting all the time. They may think that being angry, calling names, and pushing people around is a normal way to act.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row video_bg=&#8221;true&#8221; video_bg_url=&#8221;&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1534144562110{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text el_class=&#8221;highlight&#8221;]How to Handle Bullying?[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]Here are few points which we as a parent need to make our kids understand, so that they can implement them when they face such situations[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row video_bg=&#8221;true&#8221; video_bg_url=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text el_class=&#8221;justify&#8221;]\n<ul class=\"color\">\n<li><strong>Stand tall and be brave<\/strong><br \/>\nWhen you\u2019re scared of another person, you\u2019re presumably not feeling you\u2019re bravest. However, sometimes just acting brave is enough to stop a bully. How does a brave person look and act? Stand tall and you\u2019ll send the message: \u201cDon\u2019t mess with me.\u201d It\u2019s easier to feel brave when you feel good about yourself.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Feel good about you<\/strong><br \/>\nNobody\u2019s perfect, but what can you do to look and feel your best? Perhaps, you\u2019d like to be fit. If so, maybe you can get more exercise, watch less TV, and eat healthier snacks. Or maybe you feel you look best when you shower in the morning before school. If so, you could decide to get up a little earlier so you can be clean and refreshed for the school day.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Don\u2019t bully back<\/strong><br \/>\nDon\u2019t hit, kick, or push back to deal with someone bullying you or your friends. Fighting back just satisfies a bully and it\u2019s dangerous, too, because someone could get hurt. You\u2019re also likely to get in trouble.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Don\u2019t show your feelings<\/strong><br \/>\nHow can you stop yourself from getting angry or showing you\u2019re upset? Try distracting yourself by counting backwards from 100 or spelling the word \u2018turtle\u2019 backwards, etc. to keep your mind occupied until you are out of the situation and somewhere safe where you can show your feelings.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Tell an adult<\/strong><br \/>\nIf you are being bullied, it\u2019s very important to tell an adult. Find someone you trust and talk about what is happening to you. Teachers, principals, parents, and lunchroom helpers at school can all help to stop bullying. Sometimes bullies stop as soon as a teacher finds out because they\u2019re afraid that they will be punished by parents. This is not tattling on someone who has done something small \u2014 bullying is wrong and it helps if everyone who gets bullied or sees someone being bullied speaks up.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row video_bg=&#8221;true&#8221; video_bg_url=&#8221;&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1534144521470{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text el_class=&#8221;red-highlight , justify&#8221;]No one needs to put up with a bully\u2019s behaviour. If you or someone you know is bothered by a bully, talk to someone you trust. Everyone has the right to feel safe, and being bullied makes people feel unsafe. Tell someone about it and keep telling until something is done.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row video_bg=&#8221;true&#8221; video_bg_url=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text][\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row video_bg=&#8221;true&#8221; video_bg_url=&#8221;&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1534144629297{margin-top: 20px !important;margin-bottom: 20px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text el_class=&#8221;justify&#8221;]As a parent, we should know what bullying is. 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